Anthu ena patebulo la vinyo sangamwe magalasi chikwi, ndipo anthu ena amatha kuledzera pambuyo pa imodzi yokha. Kumwa, osasamala za kuchuluka kwa kapena zazing'ono, kudziwa momwe mungalimbikitse, kusangalala ndi chisangalalo chachikulu kwa moyo.
"Woledzera" amapangitsa abwenzi kukhala achikondi.
Monga momwe mawuwo akunenera, "makapu chikwi cha vinyo ndi osowa mukakumana ndi bwenzi la pachifuwa." Ndi dalitso lalikulu kukumana ndi bwenzi la pachifuwa patebulo la vinyo. Mukakhala ndi chochita, itanani anzanu awiriawiri ndi awiri, amakhala mumsewu, imwani patebulo, macheza pazinthu zabanja, ndikuyankhula za moyo.
Muzikhala ndi nthawi yopuma ndi anzanu, simusowa mawu ambiri, mawonekedwe ndi anzanu akungokumvetsani. Zinthu zonse zazing'ono, kukhumudwitsidwa kuntchito, komanso kusowa pamoyo zonse zili mu kapu ya vinyo.
"Kuledzera" kumapangitsa kukoma kwanyumba zokoma kwambiri.
Kunyumba ndi kolowera kwawo; vinyo ndi kukoma kwa kwawo. Dera lililonse lili ndi vinyo wapadera komanso chakudya chapadera. Chaka chilichonse paulendo wobwereza nthawi yokondwerera masika, makolo amakhala nthawi zonse bokosi lathunthu lodzaza ndi ana awo, kuphatikizapo vinyo ndi ndiwo zamasamba. Kwa oyendayenda kunja kwa chaka chonse, akudya chakudya chakumpompu yakunyumba ndi kumwera vinyo wa kwawo.
Chikondwerero cha kasupe chimadza chaka chamawa, oyendayenda ochokera padziko lonse lapansi abwerera kunyumba zawo. Mfundo za pabanja la anthu achi China, zomwe ndi zamakhalidwe ndi banja zimakhala ndi kapu ya vinyo, yomwe idatenga zaka masauzande ndipo zadutsa mpaka lero.
"Woledzera" amapanga chikondi mu mtima wachikondi kwambiri.
Simukudziwa yemwe amakukondani mpaka mutadwala, ndipo simukudziwa yemwe mumamukonda mukamaledzera. Ngakhale ndi nthabwala, sizikhala popanda chifukwa. Kodi mumakumbukira mukupenga chifukwa cha chikondi mukamwa, ndi ululu mumtima mwanu mukamaganiza za kulephera?
Pali mkwiyo ndi kutsekemera mwachikondi. Tikamva zowawa za chikondi, timaganizira za vinyo. Mowa umakhala ndi mtundu wa mphamvu yamatsenga, yomwe imalola anthu kuti athawe kanthawi kochepa, bwererani nokha kwa mtima wapachiyambi. Nditaledzera, nthawi zambiri sindingaganize kuti, nkuti, zomwe ndasokonezeka ndi zenizeni ndipo sizingawone bwino, ndizomveka pakadali pano. Anthu aledzera, koma mtima ndi maso.
Matenda akale amakhala osungulumwa kwambiri, omwe amangomwa omwe amasunga mayina awo. Zosalira ndi zoyamba zili ngati anthu wamba monga ife, zomwe amamwa ndi vinyo, zomwe amathetsa nkhawa zawo, ndi zomwe amaika pamitima yawo. Imwani mukasangalala, imwani mukakhumudwitsidwa, imwani mukasangalala, imwani mukakhala kuti mukulekana.
Zimakhala zovuta kwa anthu omwe nthawi zonse amakhala omveka kuyamika kukongola kwachilendo m'moyo. Anthu omwe aledzera "oledzera" ndikudziwa momwe angasangalalire ndi moyo komanso kumva kukhudzika pakati pa anthu.
Chakumwa pang'ono ndi chosangalatsa, koma kuledzera kwakukulu kumapweteka thupi. Mowa ndi chinthu chabwino, koma osakhala adyera.
Post Nthawi: Jan-29-2023